Expecting The Worst From Your Family And Friends

A good friend will always be there for you, no matter what your situation is. Likewise, a good family will always be there for you,no matter what your situation is. But good friends and family aren't gonna run away because you lost money, or because you moved further away. Good family and Friends know that life throws many trials, and they will stick through those trials with you to the end.If something bad happens to them, you also feel bad as well, even if you were not directly affected.

Friendship needs empathy for it to work.

We get so used to our friends that we become insensitive to the things we say and do. Sure, that level of comfort can be a good thing, but at the same time a lot of ugliness can start leaking out. In other words,be careful of your friends. You need to carefully understand the kinda friend you dealing with. Be close to them according to their behavior and don't be everybody's favorite.

Dealing with sister's /Brothers-in-law

Sisters-in-law come in varying proportions of sugar, spice, and everything nice! But there are a few types that are universal, which we can all identify with. If your sister-in-law is the gossiping type who loves telling tales, it is best to not trust her with secrets. Try and keep your interactions on personal matters as limited as possible. This applies to social media as well; best not to comment on her pictures if she keeps misconstruing them as interference! It can be the best solution you have to ensure peace for yourself.

Expect worst from your siblings.

Dont ever inconvinient yourself for anyone, I repeat do ever inconvinient yourself for anyone, because at the end of it all, the sacrifices made for them would not be appreciated.

Just because someone is your sibling does not mean they have earned the right to be your good friend. In some cases, our siblings can be mean-spirited, shortsighted, and reckless. If so, for your own self-preservation, apply a healthy boundary and disengage until your sibling is in a better place.Your own happiness is your primary concern, not that of any one else. If you access joy from within, it will extend to everyone around you, including siblings.Of course you want to be available to help them in some capacity, but you need to help yourself too.

My little experience made me understand that people love the gifts than the giver. They become closer to you when they know they can gain something from you. They trash you as soon as they can't get anything from you again. No matter what you do or make in life,it will be forgotten.

Expect worst from your friends and family. And to avoid constant conflicts between you them, you should define your relationship with each and every one of them. Same applies to anyone that comes your way.. Relationship definition is the final KEY to a healthy living.

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